Hi, Ana,

Enjoy this poem, then give it a try! I found that even after an argument, my husband and I could dramatically improve our communication after participating in this little challenge. I plan to share it with family on Thanksgiving, then ask them to share. The key is to identify very small, "ordinary" sources of pleasure.

Best wishes for a meaningful Thanksgiving.   Ana


Three Gratitudes


By Carrie Newcomer


Every night before I go to sleep

I say out loud

Three things that I’m grateful for,

All the significant, insignificant stuff of my life.

It’s a small practice and humble,

And yet, I find I sleep better

Holding what lightens and softens my life

Ever so briefly at the end of the day.

Sunlight, and blueberries,

Good dogs and wool socks.

A fine rain,

Fresh basil and wild phlox,

My father’s good health,

My daughter’s new job,

The song that always makes me cry,

Always at the same part,

No matter how many times I hear it.

Decent coffee at the airport,

And your quiet breathing,

The stories you told me,

The frost patterns on the windows,

English horns and banjos,

Wood thrush and June bugs,

The smooth glassy calm of the morning pond,

An old coat,

 A new poem,

My library card,

And that my car keeps running

Despite all the miles.

And after three things,

More often than not,

I get on a roll and I just keep on going,

I keep naming and listing,

Until I lie grinning,

Blankets pulled up to my chin,

Awash with wonder

At the sweetness of it all.


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